After Lane died I tried to do things like he did. Didn't start the dishwasher until it was full. Called his sister on Sunday. Always parked where he did at the airport. These little gestures made me feel closer to him. I thought he would approve.
The other day I noticed that I now park in another lot at the airport. I start the dishwasher when I am low on coffee cups. And I call my sister-in-law whenever I'm in the mood to talk to her.
Does this mean I have moved on? That life is easier now? No. Not really. But doing these little things my way does make me feel the way Lane would want me to feel -- confident and self assured. He would definitely approve.
What are the little things that you do differently than your husband?