It doesn't matter if it's good or bad when something big happens not having Lane here makes me mad.
When our third grandson was born it was bittersweet without Lane.
When our daughter was in the hospital she needed him.
When our son got a big promotion at work and couldn't share his success with his Dad he was disappointed.
When my mother died it was difficult without his support.
When our nephew Joe was the MVP of his baseball team he wanted Uncle Lane to be there cheering him on.
And the list goes on. I get mad that he isn't here to share the happiness and the sorrow. I get mad and feel sad because I miss him most of all when something big happens and he isn't a part of it.
How do you cope with important events without your husband?